Go from 'Nervous Nice Guy' to grounded, magnetic and finally yourself around women in 12 weeks

I help self-aware men go from nervous, performative and stuck in their head to genuine, grounded and boldly expressive in their relationships with women without becoming an asshole

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12 weeks of private coaching with a man who's walked the exact pathBook a free consult and we'll see if we're a good fit

"I was able to learn how to express myself, especially my sexuality. I even got a girlfriend when I was convinced that it wouldn't happen before."

- Ondra -

"I am a totally different man. Numerous colleagues and friends said I carry myself differently, seem more confident and even look taller."

- Harrison -

"Oliver helped me get back out there on the dating scene, get success and get back to becoming the best possible version of myself."

- Dan -

ready to become a genuine man?

FAQ

1) Is this just a sales call in disguise?

No. It's a real conversation about what's going on for you, where you want to be, and what's getting in the way. If it becomes clear we're a fit and you want to know how I work, I'll tell you at the end, with no pressure either way. My intention is for the call to be valuable to you whether or not we ever work together.

2) How long is it?

Around 30 minutes. Enough time to actually get somewhere, not so long it eats your day.

3) What actually happens on the call?

Mostly I listen and ask questions. You talk, I take notes, I offer some perspective where it's useful. It's informal. Just two men having an honest conversation.

4) Do I need to have it all figured out beforehand?

Not at all. You don't need a polished pitch about your problems. Turn up as you are. Getting clear on what's really going on is part of what the call is for.

5) Do I need to be in a relationship for this to be worth it?

No. The same patterns that hurt you in your intimate relationships show up everywhere. With friends, at work, on dates, single or not. The conversation is just as useful whether you're dating, single, or in a relationship.

6) I've already done therapy / read the books / tried coaching. Is this different?

Probably, yes and if you've tried things that didn't stick, you're exactly the kind of person I'd want to talk to. This goes at the root, the self-abandonment underneath the behaviour, rather than just handing you scripts to perform over the top of it.

7) What's the platform?

Zoom. You'll get a link when you book.